Every move we make into our Self and out of the symbiotic relationship with our parents, requires safety, encouragement and a stable launching pad.  If any sort of dysfunction or abuse in this developmental process is experienced, the ego is right there to offer protection.   The ego responds to the level of balance with boundaries in its environment.
It can push against limitations and learn of it's natural parameters only if there is a neutral and loving container. However, if there is significant abandonment and/or enmeshment in our field of growth, the ego gets stronger and stronger as a survival mechanism.      ​It begins a journey of separation that armors against harm instead of knowing it's personal power to coexist with others and with Life.

​We are facing our wounded egoic selves like never before in humanity.  Was the dysfunction and abuse in our history a mistake or is it pushing us to recognize the extremes of separation that we are living out. 
We have learned and been so conditioned to reject our ego and judge it as dark and evil. We have run the opposite way.  Instead of peace, this protest and escape has created even more isolation and confusion.
Our internal rejection is creating external reflection.
The Good and Light is fighting the Bad and Dark in a perpetual and unwinnable war.

​If we scope back from our focused sight on a particular moment and setting, we begin to notice a Force that has been tipping the scales to give us a leg up and out of futility.
Some sort of muscle memory is activating.
It is presenting a      "what if?"
What if we accept the presence of a self-serving destructive energy as a call and response that incites us to stand up and look at it straight in it's dark eyes. We no longer deny it's existence and it's traumatizing frequencies. Holding a strong and clear boundary, we offer our hand in an exalted partnership;  one that requires humility and surrender into a greater Truth.
This is the alchemical wonderment of the times that is creating new land masses and territory.

​ Discernment  has become a prominent  theme in our  world  as we are desperately seeking truth, authenticity and trust.  It is one of the first things I  introduce and model to the children and young adults I encounter. It is important  from an early age that we learn ways of checking in with our selves to see if something doesn't feel right or safe to us.  Trusting our gut instincts helps us bypass any trickery behind words and mental manipulation.
​Hidden agendas and manipulative illusions are now rampant in media and information technology and being evermore  perpetuated by  AI,    Image Enhancement     and Holographic High-Jacking.         It is also showing up in the disclosure trend  where institutions and leaders that we once gave full trust  are  toppling like dominos.     In my town of Sedona, Arizona, the number of young adults seeking spiritual  direction and meaning has exponentially increased as have the casualties and fallout from groups, organizations and businesses that take advantage of their  openness and  trust.

 ​The Wonderments Way Collective has lain fallow for almost 7 years.     It was a Vision     that  was so clear to me back then and yet the timing for it to  be fully realized  would not be  until now,  2023.   
I knew that I had not yet entirely settled into myself.  I hadn't integrated  the lifetimes of awareness and experience that kept telling me I am so much more than this finite human body and its stories.   Growing up with my daughter helped me come to this acceptance and a joyful reunion with all aspects of     Self.       
While I helped navigate my daughter's entrance into this  world   and its systems of forgetfulness, I saw the need  for designing new ways to align with what she and many other children were presenting.   It required me to expand my own judgements, conditioning and approaches.  
As each new generation    activates and becomes more in touch with  their  Eternal  nature, we are  lead to ever new manifestations   of Humanity, a  Humanity that is remembering .     It is as if we are reclaiming a primary sense that was severed from our life;  the seventh sense of knowing  that a Creative Power  is always collaborating    with each of us to bring Heaven into form.

The ways in which I was exchanging with and advocating for these new generations seemed to be in uncharted territory.    I  felt I had to hold back and approach those who needed support through doorways that were already established. The children were mostly accessing me through conventional means like being their nanny,  tutor,  or   teacher.     But none of these roles fit what was truly  transpiring. Many professionals, as well as parents, did not know how to define my work.  Ultimately,   it  didn't seem to matter  because  they were  delighted    to see their child      blossoming with me.
As things are progressing on our planet, I find that unprecedented​ vocations are  calling for new titles;    titles that better convey the true essence of the roles that are emerging to support the birth of a New Earth.     These vocations are combining many modalities and skills  that allow for a focus and freedom to discover   expanded and    interdisciplinary ways to serve.
For now,  I use the Titles of  Ally, Counsellor and  Mentor.  I  combine a multitude of skills to  very specifically customize     a facilitation  that  inspires  each Highly Aware young person to  realize their unique purpose and passion .