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Wounded Self to Wondered Self

9/4/2023

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​It is the ego that is our tool of individuation. 
How do we become conscious of our unique materialization from egg and sperm? 
​What assists us in recognizing that we are a third separate form from our biological creators?
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Every move we make into our Self and out of the symbiotic relationship with our parents, requires safety, encouragement and a stable launching pad.  If any sort of dysfunction or abuse in this developmental process is experienced, the ego is right there to offer protection.   The ego responds to the level of balance with boundaries in its environment.
It can push against limitations and learn of it's natural parameters only if there is a neutral and loving container. However, if there is significant abandonment and/or enmeshment in our field of growth, the ego gets stronger and stronger as a survival mechanism.      ​It begins a journey of separation that armors against harm instead of knowing it's personal power to coexist with others and with Life.

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​We are facing our wounded egoic selves like never before in humanity.  Was the dysfunction and abuse in our history a mistake or is it pushing us to recognize the extremes of separation that we are living out. 
We have learned and been so conditioned to reject our ego and judge it as dark and evil. We have run the opposite way.  Instead of peace, this protest and escape has created even more isolation and confusion.
Our internal rejection is creating external reflection.
The Good and Light is fighting the Bad and Dark in a perpetual and unwinnable war.
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​If we scope back from our focused sight on a particular moment and setting, we begin to notice a Force that has been tipping the scales to give us a leg up and out of futility.
Some sort of muscle memory is activating.
It is presenting a      "what if?"
What if we accept the presence of a self-serving destructive energy as a call and response that incites us to stand up and look at it straight in it's dark eyes. We no longer deny it's existence and it's traumatizing frequencies. Holding a strong and clear boundary, we offer our hand in an exalted partnership;  one that requires humility and surrender into a greater Truth.
This is the alchemical wonderment of the times that is creating new land masses and territory.

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Discerning Balance

9/1/2023

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Vetting Teachers, Leaders, Mentors, Facilitators, Practitioners, Coaches, Counselors, Lovers, Companions, Partners, Friends , Ourselves
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​ Discernment  has become a prominent  theme in our  world  as we are desperately seeking truth, authenticity and trust.  It is one of the first things I  introduce and model to the children and young adults I encounter. It is important  from an early age that we learn ways of checking in with our selves to see if something doesn't feel right or safe to us.  Trusting our gut instincts helps us bypass any trickery behind words and mental manipulation.
​Hidden agendas and manipulative illusions are now rampant in media and information technology and being evermore  perpetuated by  AI,    Image Enhancement     and Holographic High-Jacking.         It is also showing up in the disclosure trend  where institutions and leaders that we once gave full trust  are  toppling like dominos.     In my town of Sedona, Arizona, the number of young adults seeking spiritual  direction and meaning has exponentially increased as have the casualties and fallout from groups, organizations and businesses that take advantage of their  openness and  trust.

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The culture and energetic field of any system, organization, community, or movement is set and perpetuated by the leadership which will always have some amount of disowned shadows. The question is whether or not the leadership is publicly willing to deal with the shadows when they are reflected.
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​What is SAID by the leadership can seem so inspired, progressive and Divinely guided.    My experience and recommendation is........Don't always trust your ears, eyes or emotions.
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Always   observe the Actions, Images and Power Structures    that are demonstrated on the daily and in the mundane routines, especially when stressors arise that pressure any shadows to be revealed.

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If you have a hunch or glimpse into a lack of cohesion between word, action and portrayal, honor it. 
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 Observe any resistance or disappointment you may feel if you begin noticing or sensing disconnects.    Often this realization will trigger feelings of self doubt, confusion, vulnerability and betrayal.    Remember to allow the discomfort or anger to surface.   Delve into the feelings of anger and betrayal in order to see their origins in your own personal life. 
This will help decode the experience as a scenario for you to grow and to know Self.

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You may feel the impulse or desire to direct the anger toward the person or organization that you have been following or encountering.     You may want to collect allies for validation.
You may want  to broadcast the revelation to defend justice and the protection of others.
Be aware that to put a lot of energy into these areas may dissipate the energy you need for yourself to recover and regain your personal power.
More often than not, it is not necessary to project your disillusionment and desire to expose any further than towards your own enlightenment.

However, after you understand where betrayal is in your own history, you may find that it is appropriate and empowering to speak up and out.
​Make sure you have clarity in your  motivation for going public  and remember that everyone is responsible for their own choices and epiphanies.

The more neutral and strong you feel in sharing your experience, the less vulnerable you are to a back attack and the more effective your exposure of manipulative agendas will be.
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Here are some questions and traits you might want to consider when evaluating the level of balance within an individual or an organization.
* Do they  often enjoy supporting or encouraging others power and light with out an agenda
* Can they genuinely apologize
* Can they cry with honesty and not performance
* Do they like to laugh, especially at themselves
* Can they be spontaneous and random
* Are they able to experiment, explore and invite mystery
* Are they comfortably receptive to genuine attention, love and compliments
* Are they generous with their time, money, possessions, and attention with out personal gain
* Do they reflect often on their own motives
* Can they  acknowledge/celebrate their successes/accomplishments without public recognition
* Do they view their experiences  as reflections of their own intentions to know and to grow
* Can they be playful and silly with innocence and without attention seeking
* Do they honor and protect the privacy of self and other's time, space, thoughts, feelings, and creations.
* Are they willing to speak out when something feels  manipulative without shame or blame
* Can they be silent with others
* Can they hold themselves and others accountable for behavior or actions that are not integrous
* Can they say no without judgement of right and wrong
* Do they like to engage in  creative activities without a goal
* Are they comfortable being out in Nature and wilderness
* Are they willing to be messy, wild, or unadorned
* Do they tend to the natural beauty of their body and surroundings with  care and love
* Are they overly image or presentation focused
* Are they able to feel expanded moments of deep love and appreciation for self
* Can they enjoy their own personal company out in public
* Can they really listen and be attentive to others
* Can they risk changing things up from their routines
* Do they take themselves out on adventures or out of their comfort zones
* Can they share their shadows, grief, confusion, anger, doubts, jealousies, shame without  dramatization
* Do they often need others for validation and projection
* Are they present in their bodies with love and attention
* Can they be patient, trust timing and not rush self and others
* Can they allow their energy to be steady, consistent and neutral
* Are they flexible/resilient with their opinions/structures or do they  defend, hold or impose a position
* Do they readily/authentically express their passions,  enthusiasms, boldness without    justification
* Can they make soft eye contact
* Is their body language grounded, balanced, calm and open or  nervous, aggressive, protective, hesitant
* Is their energy looking to merge, emulate or assimilate others or does it hold it's own space
* Are they able to be respectful to self and others
* Can they feel relaxed and peaceful without doing
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A Different Kind of Human

8/10/2023

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I am an Aurora fan.     I recently discovered her and her music and am using her album title for this blog post.  I guess she really  depicts  the young people who have found me along the way, including a daughter.
 I  never thought I would become a mom but underneath that resignation was a deep longing that had been buried  under too many traumas  that made it an impossibility in my mind.       But once she manifested, my life     unfolded at a rapid pace.

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 ​The Wonderments Way Collective has lain fallow for almost 7 years.     It was a Vision     that  was so clear to me back then and yet the timing for it to  be fully realized  would not be  until now,  2023.   
I knew that I had not yet entirely settled into myself.  I hadn't integrated  the lifetimes of awareness and experience that kept telling me I am so much more than this finite human body and its stories.   Growing up with my daughter helped me come to this acceptance and a joyful reunion with all aspects of     Self.       
While I helped navigate my daughter's entrance into this  world   and its systems of forgetfulness, I saw the need  for designing new ways to align with what she and many other children were presenting.   It required me to expand my own judgements, conditioning and approaches.  
As each new generation    activates and becomes more in touch with  their  Eternal  nature, we are  lead to ever new manifestations   of Humanity, a  Humanity that is remembering .     It is as if we are reclaiming a primary sense that was severed from our life;  the seventh sense of knowing  that a Creative Power  is always collaborating    with each of us to bring Heaven into form.

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The ways in which I was exchanging with and advocating for these new generations seemed to be in uncharted territory.    I  felt I had to hold back and approach those who needed support through doorways that were already established. The children were mostly accessing me through conventional means like being their nanny,  tutor,  or   teacher.     But none of these roles fit what was truly  transpiring. Many professionals, as well as parents, did not know how to define my work.  Ultimately,   it  didn't seem to matter  because  they were  delighted    to see their child      blossoming with me.
As things are progressing on our planet, I find that unprecedented​ vocations are  calling for new titles;    titles that better convey the true essence of the roles that are emerging to support the birth of a New Earth.     These vocations are combining many modalities and skills  that allow for a focus and freedom to discover   expanded and    interdisciplinary ways to serve.
For now,  I use the Titles of  Ally, Counsellor and  Mentor.  I  combine a multitude of skills to  very specifically customize     a facilitation  that  inspires  each Highly Aware young person to  realize their unique purpose and passion .

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With a desire to assist families and communities in stewarding these new generations, I attempted to compile  effective perceptions and practices  in a book  to be called "Parenting Our Evolution".    After 6 chapters into the writing, I surrendered to the frustration that a conventional book was too limiting  a process.  It was not holographic  nor dynamic enough to capture and translate the accelerating encounters I was having with the children, families and with my own growth.    I have initiated this  blog as a possible means to convey some of the discoveries  and  transformations  that are happening every day within the children, the families, the community, and the  world.    You can look forward to many topics which are being informed by a Collaboration between me, Highly Aware youth, their families, and the Divine guides who have come forward in this work.   
​Upcoming blogs will explore Normalizing Miracles, Grounding & Discernment, Individuating in the One, Holistic Education,  Parenting in Uncertainty, Conscious Language.

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    Aila Arya Anam

    Aila hadn't planned on having children but at age 39 while in the middle of cutting a water melon,   she heard an inner voice that told her to go sit down.  Never had  she heard such a clear instruction. As she sat on the bed in their studio apartment, she heard "You are going to have a child"

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